This blog is intended for the sole purposes to inform, motivate, guide, and just save many of lives. The content is in parts from real life experience and/or realistic events. It also contains some adult language that may not be appropriate for anyone under the age 13. If you are offended by adult language, EXIT NOW
ARE YOU GOING CLUBBING SOON?
Well, I think you better read this first......
STATS WOMEN DO NOT KNOW ABOUT MEN
- 85% OF men are at the club to get laid, 45% of women are there to get laid and/or to get paid including free drinks.
- The moment men walk into clubs they survey the scene as to which girls are prospects based on misleading attire, vulnerable, and lastly looks. That applies the same way when the guy is in the club and a woman or women walks in. They tend to look for vulnerability. They are reluctant to approach a girl that gives little or not any eye contact so if your not there to get laid, then there SHOULD NOT be any misleading, eye contact, level of interest. Your attire plays a huge part in the misleading for men. There are levels of class and levels of just wanting attention. If you are too weak and/or with a very low self-esteem to fight off someone running game on you, then I would suggest you dress a little less provocative or add a little flavor of class. That always keeps the clinging perverts away.
- Always bring a tag along - A true friend would be great. Not the friends that are drama queens and will get you into trouble. Though men have luck about 1 out of 10 leaving with a girl from the club. This is why it is and I repeat VERY IMPORTANT to always have a friend tag along. For a woman to go clubbing alone, is a big NO NO!! This could be very dangerous and could cost you your future and life especially if you are the go with the flow type and really have a low self-esteem. Educate yourself from all the other losers and never let a guy's story amaze you. He's in the club for all the wrong reasons then to you just have a good time. Pick up on this and walk away. You can easily be tricked into believing that he does in fact own 3 mortgage companies and records music for P Diddy. They are all lies to suck you into getting you in bed!! Guys tend to use this everywhere and this is highly a well-known behavior in Las Vegas. These are just some facts because any girl going clubbing alone will more likely buy into it than a girl with other friends telling her "ITS A LIE" so this is partly the reason you never see girls in the club alone. There has to be that second wheel that could potentially save the day from ignorance but at the same time could get you into more trouble if they are not real friends.
- Do Not let a guy purchase your drinks unless you absolutely know him in real life not from club life. This is very serious and there may be other exceptions but I would recommend that you do not let a guy buy any drinks for you. A drink especially for you is not actually being nice; it is saying "I will buy you a drink and maybe I will get lucky". There may be some uncertainty but I will guarantee 95% of the time this is the mindset. A guy could get you a drink (which could be spiked, poisoned, or tampered with). Let's move on and say that you took the drink(s) - Well, now he seems to be getting all of your personal information, address, work, education, and so on. But right before he asks for your phone number, you tell him that you have to go to lady's room and you will be right back. Now, if you return to that very same spot, then you are asking for trouble or at least some extra attention. Now, you can not complain that you are being stalked. These steps are critical and if you follow simple guidelines, you will be better off. Anyway, YOU'VE BEEN WARNED!!
- Another thing is that most really good clubs close shortly after 2 A.M. By that time, most smart women will be gone by this time unless they're just having a wild ride. So, if there is any particular reason you are still there shortly after 2 A.M. - it better be good. Better yet, avoid trouble, stalkers, drunks by just leaving now!! But Assuming you've consumed over 5 or more drinks in a short time. Then you are likely to fall victim because there are still men wondering around looking for that woman to leave the club/bar with. This is nearly a desperate attempt because the classy women had their fun and have already left the club; the men still hanging around are most likely running short of options now that only the and some often take it to the next level. By means of seeking attention to the club's bartenders. Now if this is a well-known club then it's going to have female bartenders. Female bartenders keep a small attraction to a club even though they actually have little time for personal conversations. To keep it short, in other words, they use them as barmaids and men hardly see them during the course of the night. They mainly hang out in the vip lounge to attract attention there for more needy men to spend a little more money.
- By 3 A.M, that same guy you talked to earlier in the night that said he knew Hugh Hefner and was headed back to Cali in the morning is still at the club wondering and searching for that one girl that came to the club alone without any tag-alongs. And that same guy you bumped into earlier with a lot of bling in his mouth and two iced bracelets that voluntarily wants to take care of a stranger is still at the club. In fact, they are so wealthy that they spend their entire time at clubs getting drunk by themselves and paying for women's drinks. In their mind, they're thinking of just finding any girl to leave with them. A phone number will do justice for the money he spent on drinks and VIP and of course coming up with those cheesy pick up lines and lies in the first place. A number is a lead in these days and a lead can turn into a potential date. If this is the case, then this is a date that he only wants to last one night (potential make-up date from the club spoiler). The fact that he wasn't able to leave with the girl of his choice is not the let down, the fact that it took him 20 drinks and vip presence and a handful of lies to do it is what bothers him.
- Do Not Give out your phone number because you are not certain of his status. REMEMBER, you met in a club and the same way you figured you could get something out of him, he was thinking the same. If this is what you want then it could lead to other major drama in your life. I hear many women say that he is too controlling. Well, if you think that you have something going with some guy you meet at a club; then you have some issues you have to address with yourself. Maybe you find out that you both are insane people then you give him your number. LOL!! Lets say that the whole night he was not successful in getting not one number. You gave in and now you are included in the 65% I mentioned earlier - Women that come to clubs to get laid. You are one of those this blog does not help you. I guess we can say that man is one step closer in getting what he came to the club for. If you don't stand for something, You will fall for anything!! Theoretically, we're making sense for a man to actually pursue these short term goals and it explains alot of blank answers women tend to ask about men at clubs and can't find answers to. There may not be ways to counter this behavior because it is very common by men at clubs. Again, if you keep in mind that 85% or more men go to club to get laid, then maybe you can be aware of things that happen and not fall victim to future encounters or disruptions in your life. This is, no matter how you like it the realization of the club life. Many women find themselves trapped with men that they met at a club and many eventually wind up pregnant of some sort or in the news missing. This is not only at clubs but many other places that are making women pay dues for their costly mistakes. The percentage is very low for someone to find love at a club and I think this the club should be a place to have a good time not a time for hooking up with strangers.
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NOTE TO WOMEN : Keep in mind. IN ORDER FOR YOU TO BE SUCCESSFUL WITH NOT GETTING SCREWED OVER BY MEN, YOU SHOULD ALWAYS REALIZE THAT YOU ARE THE ONE IN CONTROL 70% OF THE TIME. TAKE PRIDE IN SOMETHING AND THAT BEING SELF-RESPECT AND PRIDE FOR WOMEN. IF YOU RESPECT YOURSELF, PEOPLE WILL RESPECT YOU. NO ONE ADMIRES PROSTITUTES AND HOOKERS..IF YOU ARE DRESSED TOO SLEEZY THEN YOU ARE ASKING FOR NEGATIVE ATTENTION. GUYS ARE LOOKING AT THAT OTHER GIRL BECAUSE SHE IS DRESSED LIKE A PORN STAR AND ITS NOT BECAUSE SHE IS THE HOTTEST THING EVER!!
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